No one should ever have to face domestic violence. There is never an excuse for assaulting one’s spouse. If you have experienced domestic violence in your marriage, divorce may be your best option. Violently abusive spouses rarely stop their behavior on their own. You will most likely need to exit the relationship in order to be safe from further violence. When you are divorcing an abusive spouse, there are some special considerations. Taking care of your emotional and physical needs is very important during this time. Meeting your legal needs and protecting your rights will likely take the skill of an attorney. Daniel R. Bacalis, P.C. is experienced in helping domestic violence survivors get divorced and takes special care to see that survivors are treated fairly throughout the process.
Advice for Divorcing an Abusive Spouse
Divorce can be especially challenging for those who were abused during the marriage. Some helpful tips include:
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Communicate through lawyers only - Your spouse may attempt to contact you directly during the divorce. It is best to respond only by telling them to contact your attorney. Speaking with your spouse gives them the opportunity to try to persuade you to stay. Abusers often resist divorce and may promise to change or behave very kindly in an effort to convince you not to leave.
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